Trust is the most important factor in
any and all relationships. It is impossible to have a lasting
relationship without trust. When the lust is gone the trust has to
remain, it is key to friendship and love. There cannot be love
without trust, merely a strained connection.
That one person (or more) in your life
that you find a lifelong attraction to is most likely the one that
you trust even when you don't trust them. The arguments can be
intense but in the end the devotion wins out and you find yourself
still drawn to them in such a way that you cannot control it. It does
not matter what the two of you have done to each other, you still
defend each other to the ends of the earth.
Trust can mean a number of things and
you can trust different people with different aspects of your life
but trusting someone with your heart is an entirely different story.
It requires that you be willing to let them in close enough to hurt
you. Fear will prevent full disclosure outside of an area where
confidentiality is mandatory as long as you are not confessing to a
crime or the intent to harm someone.
Telling someone the secrets that you
keep closest to your heart is a scary thing, but knowing they will
never tell a soul is a feeling like no other. Trust is what leads to
couples remaining friends long after the love affair has ended and
makes everyone around them wonder why they are not together.
Trust is fragile, a single incident of
not being able to believe someone has the ability to make sure that
you never believe them again. The worst part is that there are those
that do not realize that it can be the tiniest things that make it
impossible for you to trust them.
Once you find someone that trusts you
without reason, and that you can trust without reason make sure that
you treasure them for the rest of your life. They are a rare find.
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